Learning To Own My “Girly Girl”

I am probably about as far from girly-girl as you can get… aaaand that’s a lie. There’s not much that I relish more that indulging in all things makeup, getting a brand new set of fake nails, and a therapeutic shopping spree.

But I’ve never been that girl. The one who’s into anything diamante, glitter on glitter on glitter, all things disney princess, and the colour pink. It’s never been a colour that I would ever pick out, enjoy wearing, or find any happiness in. Like black, the colour black gives me all the happy goth vibes. I’ve always associated “pink” with those girly girls who I just couldn’t identify with as an 8 y/o gal who was obsessed with dinosaurs and would rather play with Barbie’s Jeep than dress her up. I really didn’t think you could be both a glitter queen and a prehistoric fossil enthusiast at the same time, and I really wish I could go back in time and tell lil holzee that you and do and wear whatever the fuck you want, despite what you’re interests are.

I think the important realisation for me, is that being that girly-girl isn’t a bad thing at all. I’ve always admired girly girls for how cutesy and pretty they look, and let’s be honest – being girly/feminine is bomb. It’s fucking great, and I’ve totally learnt to own my girliness. There’s something quite sinister about a society that makes young girls feel like they either need to be girly, or that must totally reject it altogether. When it’s totally a-okay to dress up like a chic goth one day, and choose your next ensemble as a a kawaii kween.

Miss Pap Aria Pink Bardot Ruffle Sleeve Top

New Look Petite Frayed Seam Front Straight Leg Jeans

Ego Foxy Blush Slider With Satin Bow

A lot of people struggle to define where their personal style limits are. But apparently anything really… coloured, is simply outside of my comfort zone. I would naturally never gravitate toward any shades of green, red, pink etc whatsoever as the minimalist soul inside of me can’t help but create a fully collaborative capsule wardrobe, where all the items can mesh together. I’m a massive fan of anything multifunctional and my usual go-to wardrobe encompasses lots of black accessories, and minimalistic patterns like stripes and gingham for effortless style.

Truth is there really is harm in adding in a girly pop of colour – to not only inspire myself, but to enable myself to embrace my girliness. Something that I really didn’t expect from going from all-black wardrobe emo goth gal, to chic pink-embracer, was that it’s actually a massive step for me in accepting, and celebrating my own femininity and the empowerment of being a girl & woman. 

From now on, I’m not going to say no to a bow, or turn my nose up at fushia, or reject anything covered in sequins or glitter – I’m ready to own my girliness, bring it.

How do you embrace your femininity?



  1. Tori M
    June 11, 2017 / 1:11 PM

    Ah you look fab! Owning that pink. That's the fab thing about fashion isn't it, you can experiment with different looks and personasTori | http://www.torisworld.com

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:07 AM

      Totally agree with you there Tori! xo

  2. Steph Hartley
    June 11, 2017 / 2:27 PM

    That top is absolutely beautiful, especially the sleeves. And you totally rock it! I was such a dino kid when I was younger too and I avoided anything 'girly' because it didn't 'fit' me, but recently I've been loving makeup as well as slobbing out in my 'boy' clothes and chilling. You can do it allSteph – http://www.nourishmeblog.co.uk

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:07 AM

      Thanks so much girl! Ahh I totally resonate with that, snap! x

  3. Andini Ria
    June 11, 2017 / 2:49 PM

    That top is the dreamiest, this style totally suits you! <3Andini xx | Adventures of an Anglophile

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:07 AM

      That's so kind, thank you Andini!

  4. alittlekiran
    June 11, 2017 / 4:41 PM

    I love this look, you look gorgeous. We all have our own take on different aesthetics, I love your girly girl haha, hope you are having a fab weekend xxxALittleKiran | Bloglovin

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:07 AM

      Thank you, beautiful! x

  5. Honeypot Blogs
    June 11, 2017 / 5:05 PM

    This post really resonates with me, growing up I was an "anti girly girl" but the older I kind struggled between wanting to be a girly girl and wanting to dress head to toe in black! Now, I just go on whether I like something regardless of whether it's considered girly or not, like I'll still wear black on black but I might add a bit of girly flare with a bright red scarf or a designer handbag or go ahead an wear that floral dress in my own way!Great post dear!!xxHoneypot Blogs

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:08 AM

      Totally, I take my style one day at a time! xo

  6. Erin Azmir
    June 11, 2017 / 6:07 PM

    Great post Holly! Your top is to die for! xErin Azmir Blog

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:08 AM

      Thank you, Erin! x

  7. Leah Marriott
    June 12, 2017 / 1:18 PM

    I recently bought some similar sliders in a lighter pink shade and they're definitely got me embracing my girly side even moreLeah xhttp://www.leahmarriott.co.uk

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:09 AM

      I'm all over satin sliders right now!xo

    • Holly Ah-Thion
      June 27, 2017 / 10:09 AM

      Thank you so much, Jenny! x

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